How to delete your Adult Friend Finder account
To delete your Adult Friend Finder account, log in, go to your account settings, find the "Delete Account" or "Close Account" option, and follow the prompts to confirm. The site will ask you to enter your password again as verification. Once you confirm, your profile and messages are removed from the live site within a few hours, though Adult Friend Finder may retain some data in backups for a period of time as required by law.
The deletion is permanent — you cannot recover a deleted account or its contents. If you want to stop using the site but keep your data, you can deactivate instead, which hides your profile without removing it. Deactivation takes seconds and you can reactivate later by logging back in.
Key Takeaways
- Deletion removes your profile immediately from the live site, but Adult Friend Finder keeps some backup data for legal and security reasons.
- Deactivation hides your profile without removing it, and you can reactivate by logging in again at any time.
- You must log in and use the account settings menu to delete — there is no way to delete an account from outside the site.
- If you cannot access your account, contact Adult Friend Finder support with your email address and they can process a deletion request.
The difference between deletion and deactivation
Deletion removes your profile, photos, messages, and account data from Adult Friend Finder's active systems. Other users cannot find you, message you, or see your profile. The site no longer shows your activity or presence. This action is permanent.
Deactivation hides your profile from search and browsing, but keeps your account and data intact on Adult Friend Finder's servers. You can log back in at any time and reactivate. Your messages remain in the system, and if someone has your profile link saved, they may still be able to see it depending on the site's settings. Deactivation is reversible.
Choose deletion if you do not plan to return. Choose deactivation if you want a break but might come back, or if you want to keep your message history.
Steps to delete your account from a computer
Log into your Adult Friend Finder account using your email and password. Once you are on your profile page, look for a menu icon (usually three horizontal lines or a gear icon) in the top right corner or in a sidebar. Click it and select "Settings" or "Account Settings."
Scroll down through the settings menu until you see an option labeled "Delete Account," "Close Account," or "Remove Account." Click that option. Adult Friend Finder will show you a warning that deletion is permanent and ask you to confirm. You will need to enter your password again to verify the request.
After you enter your password and click the final confirmation button, your account will be scheduled for deletion. The profile disappears from the site within a few hours. You will receive a confirmation email at the address associated with your account.
Steps to delete your account from a phone or tablet
Open the Adult Friend Finder app or mobile website and log in. Tap the menu icon (usually three lines or a profile icon) at the bottom or top of the screen. Select "Settings" or "Account."
Scroll to the bottom of the settings page. Tap "Delete Account" or "Close Account." The app will ask you to confirm and re-enter your password. Tap the confirmation button. Your account will be removed from the live site within a few hours, and you will receive a confirmation email.
What happens to your data after deletion
Adult Friend Finder removes your profile, photos, and messages from its public and searchable systems immediately. However, the company retains some data in backup systems for a limited time to comply with payment processing rules, fraud prevention, and legal holds. This backup data is not accessible to other users and is not used for marketing or other purposes.
If you have a paid subscription, deletion does not refund unused time. Check your subscription status before you delete. If you want a refund, contact Adult Friend Finder support before you delete your account.
Any photos or messages you sent to other users may remain in their inboxes or on their devices even after your account is deleted. Deletion only removes content from your own account and Adult Friend Finder's systems.
If you cannot access your account
If you forgot your password, use the "Forgot Password" link on the login page. Adult Friend Finder will send a reset link to your email. Click the link, create a new password, and log in. Then follow the deletion steps above.
If you cannot access the email address associated with your account, or if you do not remember your username, contact Adult Friend Finder support directly. Go to the site's help or support page and look for a contact form or email address. Provide your full name, the email address on file, and any other identifying information. Support can verify your identity and process a deletion request on your behalf, though this may take several business days.
Deactivating instead of deleting
If you want to pause your account without losing your data, deactivate it. Log in, go to Settings, and look for "Deactivate Account" or "Pause Account." Click it and confirm. Your profile will be hidden from other users, but your account remains on Adult Friend Finder's servers.
To reactivate, simply log back in with your email and password. Your profile, messages, and photos will return to the site. You can deactivate and reactivate as many times as you want. Deactivation does not affect any paid subscription you have — if you have an active membership, it will continue to charge you even while your account is deactivated.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I get a refund if I delete my account before my subscription ends?
Adult Friend Finder does not refund unused subscription time when you delete your account. If you have an active paid membership and want a refund, contact support before you delete. Explain your situation and ask whether a refund is possible. Policies vary, and support may be able to help depending on how long you have had the subscription and when it renews.
Will deleting my account remove messages I sent to other people?
No. Deletion removes your profile and your inbox, but messages you sent to other users remain in their inboxes. They can still read what you wrote, but they will not be able to click your profile or see your photos because your account no longer exists. If you want to remove a specific message before deleting, you can try to delete it from your sent folder first, though this depends on Adult Friend Finder's message settings.
How long does it take for my account to be fully deleted?
Your profile disappears from the live site within a few hours of deletion. You will receive a confirmation email. However, Adult Friend Finder retains some data in backup systems for a limited time for legal and security reasons. This backup data is not visible to other users and is eventually purged according to the company's data retention policy.
Can I delete my account if I have an active dispute or payment issue?
You can delete your account at any time, but if you have an unpaid charge or a dispute with Adult Friend Finder, deletion does not cancel the dispute or remove the charge. Resolve any payment issues with support before you delete, or contact your bank or credit card company to dispute the charge if you believe it was unauthorized.
What is the difference between deleting and blocking other users?
Blocking prevents a specific person from contacting you or seeing your profile, but your account remains active. Deletion removes your entire account and profile from the site. If you only want to stop hearing from one person, block them. If you want to leave the site entirely, delete your account.